In this article I explain why Love is an existential state of being and invite you to release limitation and Let It Be.
Love is incompatible with limitation.
Love is an expansive state of being that flows through everything we think, feel and do. It cannot be engaged with partially or selectively. It cannot be half-hearted – it is either present or absent.
Love is found in the fullness of who we are. It cannot exist when we compartmentalise or compromise our psyche or our life.
Like all states of being, Love is always available to us in unlimited flow because it’s what we’re made of. We don’t have to ‘find it’, we can’t ‘lose it’ and it isn’t ‘elusive’ – we only believe these things about Love when limitation has become the status quo.
When we accept a state of limitation, we manifest only a fraction of what’s possible in relationships.
Want examples? Here are a few that I’ve noticed in the Twin Flame/Soulmate community…
We may fixate upon our needs being met by a specific person, despite the evidence that this brings us pain, discordance or disappointment. We may even believe that this is the best it can be because it’s this person or nothing. This has nothing to do with Love; and everything to do with self destruction.
We may force ourselves to accept less than we deserve, despite the evidence that this brings resentment, frustration or sadness. We may even tell ourselves that we’re not entitled to experience anything different. This has nothing to do with Love; and everything to do with unworthiness.
We may find ourselves stuck or trapped in a reality that hurts or drains us, despite the evidence that we’re over-giving, deferring ourselves or being traumatised. We may even decide that we lack energy to move forward or that it’s just a case of being more patient because we have to wait. This has nothing to do with Love; and everything to do with powerlessness.
When we choose limitation over Love, Love simply ceases to exist. It becomes usurped by limitation.
I invite you to examine your reality today by asking yourself three questions:
- Am I limiting my capacity to experience a state of Love because I’m fixated on a specific person who’s not ready, willing or available to me?
- Am I limiting my capacity to experience a state of Love because I don’t feel entitled to be free of heartache?
- Am I limiting my capacity to experience a state of Love because I feel too weak, I fear loss or I won’t take the risk of moving forward?
Finally, I invite you to ask yourself:
- What will I experience when I choose to stop feeding limitation? What does my experience in relationships have the potential to be?
You may see that the specific person you’d fixated on wasn’t really the One for you.
You may recognise that you’ll embrace your core values more fully and that collaborative, connected, intimate relationships are your entitlement.
You may realise that you’ll have energy and momentum because you’ll be fearless, expansive and more fully you.
You’ll finally ignite the spark in your Heart that becomes an eternal flame. Take a breath and imagine, now, what that could attract.
If you’re truly a Twin Flame or Soulmate or your mission is to experience deep, spiritual, expansive Love as an existential state of being, do your work – start today.
Awaken to Love. And Let It Be.
Until next time
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